Hah... my husband used to think he liked soft beds, until he spent some time on a firm mattress and found that he didn't have as many aches and pains in the morning. In our house, you'd be relegated to the oldest pull-out couch, since all our beds are firm. Ever thought of just placing different types of lattenrost underneath the mattress? You get a medium mattress and one side gets a springy lattenrost underneath to make it softer, and the other side gets a firm one.
I know a firm support matress will give me less aches and pains,I know, but getting into a bed that rolls you into the semi-fetal position as soon as you lie down with huge feather filled pillows --- bliss Must be all the time spent in sleeping bags using my jacket as a pillow I suppose.



